Holding it Right

We, human beings, are energy systems. We accumulate lots from the world and hold them right into our conscious (or sub/un conscious, as Freud would say). The resultant vector of all these positive, negative and neutral accruals tends to propel us in a particular direction. Aren’t we the product of our socialization patterns!? At the same time, there exist various mechanisms of releasing the negative energies or putting the positive ones to good use (may be even vice-versa). In any case, the equilibrium needs to be maintained. The equilibrium that we seek to achieve, again, depends on the socialization we have been subjected to. Every action followed by the other is concatenated, making a chain of events called the life. The outcome of each act reinforces or fades our beliefs and prejudices and defines our living patterns.

The crux of the matter is that there needs to be a constant inflow and outflow of energies from our living system. Suppression and repression should never be the way of life. These two processes in particular, stuff us with unnecessary trash that rots inside us and starts getting manifested in our attitude towards life. There is always a dignified way of expressing anger, wrath, disgust, affection, love and expectations. Neglect may also be a way of repression. Every event in life should reach its logical end. We live life in phases, don’t we!? The unhappiest of them bear the deepest imprint on our psyche. After having gained experiences with life and having borrowed some wisdom along with it, we must certainly try to give ourselves some relief through a self driven mechanism of releasing the pent up feelings.

Most of the people in this world respect honesty. On the other hand, nobody is inherently inclined to bear grudges. The two factors when combined together, lead us to a conclusion, though not a definitive one, that, it is not difficult to find the ways of ‘peaceful co-existence’. There is enough room in the world to accommodate you and your feelings. Let the river flow charting out its own course.

How long and how well one holds and releases one’s summated energies is a clear reflection of one’s learning from life. I guess, recollection and reminiscence plays a vital role in the process. Lets experiment with life..while holding it right.